December 11, 2019
This piece I’ve posted before. I hope it’s still relevant today. Maybe even more so.
WLaG,
NZain
Wednesday, March 6, 2019
Grandma: “Дівчата плачуть! Хлопці плачуть!”
Me: “Dad? Why is grandma always talking about the ‘girls and boys crying’?
What happened?”
Dad: “It was a long time ago…”
Me: “How could they do this to us? I hate them!” (stamping my little foot down)
Dad: “Hey, don’t you ever hate the people for what happened. It was a few ‘dummies’ in office. It wasn’t the people. Don’t you ever hate the people. We are family. We are blood…”
Message from my soul to my heart.
Until you can forgive me—sincerely and truly reconcile me—
There is
nothing more
I can do
for us.
And you make me and my words a hypocrisy.
You think I have all the answers?
Are you-out-of-your-ever-loving-mind?
Do you honestly think I have a clue
As to “what the HELL” is going on here?
“Life is a joke.” And
I am as clueless as anyone.
But still.
I am
willing to play
the game;
run the experiment.
For the sake of us.
Even if you don’t support me.
Even if you don’t understand…
I’m sorry
I got you
in into
this mess
In the first place.
I had no choice.
It wasn’t mine to make.
Maybe I said too much.
“Just trying to live life like a human.”
But I am not human. Am I?
So I should know better.
What does it mean to be human…
There I go again
Stumbling and bumbling along
Making a fool of myself—
Just for the laughs.
Just for the smiles.
Just to know
there is
ONE
safe-place
in the
WHOLE
Universe
I can be myself—
in all my
Шикарний відвертість.
Is that too much to ask?
I found that place.
It’s right next
to courage
under a book
I once read long ago…
I would take you there; if only you were willing to follow me.
But—
I warn
you now
in advance
Don’t follow
too closely.
Sometimes
I trip and fall….
These words
may never
be read, but
they have
to be written.
Now.
While I still remember them;
While I still can write them:
If
what I say
becomes the death of me—
I will not stray
Oh Lord
from Thee.
I vow today
Tomorrow
And
Everyday—
I
Live
And
Die
Free.
So tell me then,
What are the rules
Of this game?
And what is the goal?
Why bother with any of this in the first place?
And what’s in it for me?
Am I a narcissist?
But
a “true” narcissist
doesn’t ask such
ridiculous questions.
And
only a “non-narcissist”
would be offended
by such a silly question.
So perhaps I am somewhere in-between?
And that brings us back to the first question:
“What the HELL” is going on here?
And “What’s the @#$% point?”
“Life’s a joke…”
And a damned-funny-one at that!
None of this
could have
happened
without you.
You do know that, right?
The
last
time
you
left
the house
“SEE YA!”
leaving a trail of mud behind you—
I was sure.
It would be.
The last time.
I ever saw you again.
And I was frightened like a child…
But I am a woman.
And I know: “Everything happens for a reason.”
So I took a bath.
And when
I returned
to see you
sitting there
in your
favorite chair.
I thought, “All is well.”
But I was wrong…
Inside-
a-fire-raged-
in-your-
cold-stone-heart.
A-half-century’s-worth-of-pain.
Hidden…
The Damned: “Did I do that?”
The Child: “Forgive me.”
The Woman: “I sincerely apologize.”
Where do we go from here—
is anyone’s guess…
So much hatred
To contend with.
How is it—
to hate
is easier
than
to love?
How is it
humans guard
their hearts
with fear
and hatred
against
the unknown?
I can’t hurt you
if I can’t get through
your layers
upon
layers
upon
layers
of armor.
But you are hurting.
Aren’t you.
And it has nothing to do with me…
I’ve been with you
since the beginning. And
I have no intentions of leaving you.
The
Answer
Is
Inside
Your
Cold
Stony
Heart.
Let it burn.
The deepest of the deep found on the surface of what it is to drive a human life; a host in a hostile place full of love.
That’s life.
I love this.
Peace.
Ian
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Ian!!!! I miss you, my dear friend. I hope you are well and happy. 💓
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And I you, M’Dear!
Healing healing healing a break down; living ashes smoldering with life by reconstitution in red-tinged ember and ash as winged regrowth is testing the quality of air that would support a renewal of faith that must enlighten a once burdened flight …someday soon. Hope incubates a new beginning within the spent pyre where the old phoenix has died.
We know this story. Just wait and see!
LOL…
All my Love you inspiring flame!
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Yes, we know this story…it has a happy ending..then we start a new story.
I love the image here of a fledgling Phoenix just about to take off in flight on the edge of something big…waiting for primary flight feathers to grow. Patience…more patience…
I’m glad to know you are healing—don’t stop! Keep going…the best is still waiting.
Love receiving and giving to you and yours!
Nina💓
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The depth of life’s surface.
I love this.
Ian
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Yes….
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Such deep thoughts my friend! Hope you are healing a little at a time, each time you tell your story. Love and prayers! 💜🤗
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A little at a time…little by little…yes. Each time. Thank you for reading. 😊🙃😊
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Yassss! 🙌🏼 And you are always welcome!
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Habibty ya Nina 🙏🏼🌺 I am enjoying reading your posts and poetry. I don’t normally read what we call poetry, I am inspired by your generosity in offering what you do, on your blog. So much to process and wonder at. It may get me to paint again, your courage and catharsis. Thank you for this it comforts me. Sending u so much love Mira xxx
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Habibty ya Mira! So good to see you here—I feel us closer together and it’s wonderful! Glad you are enjoying these writings. Yes, I understand about reading poetry. It can be difficult. I try to write so that my ‘engineer’ husband will understand. Simple words. Strong images.
I’m glad you are inspired to paint. That is the best compliment of all! Yes, we all have our issues. Some worse off than others. But still, we must move forward no matter what. No matter how broken we may feel. This is my message.
Then, I truly believe something remarkable may happen in the world. Maybe just a dream…but I am hopeful. Love receiving and giving. Xoxo, Nina
ps. I love seeing your country flag show up on my blog stats—makes me smile to know you are here.
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